Every parent wants that his child should live a full fledge life, but at the same time Parents themselves become a barrier in their child’s life, unknowingly. It is very important that a parent should understand the ways in which a child should be raised. I am going to share some practices that helps you to raise your child in a playful way.
1.Invitation to child to the womb– First of when you invite any life as your child, you should go for sex as you are going to some holistic place, like temple, church etc… Don’t be animalistic while sex, look at your partner’s forehead while sex and breath slowly. Be loving and never look to sex as a sin. It will helps to bring a life with some higher qualities.
2.After birth– If your child is an baby girl, give a father’s touch and if he is a boy then mother’s touch as much as possible for first four to five year of age. It will helps to reduce hormonal effects on your baby at later stage. Don’t be in hurry to cover your baby with clothes, let him be naked most of the time for first few years, if he/she is playing with his own sex organs, let him play, Don’t stop.
3.Dont say no – If a baby ask for something, or he/she wants to go somewhere, if he/she wants to play, Don’t say no to his/her. Instead, support him/her to fulfill every desire he/she has. it gives him self respect and make ways for sheer intelligence.
4.Let him/her be mischievous– congratulations, if your child born mischievous, mischievousness is an fundamental right of an child. Encourage him to take risk also be with him for safety. Just let him/her do whatever he/she is doing notice them for safety purpose. Dont be unnecessary interruption.
5. Dont give your ideas and philosophy.– Instead putting ideas and philosophies on your child, give them enough freedom to grow his/her intelligence. Dont teach manners to them, everyone has his own intelligence and let him decide the way in which he/she wants to live.
6.add some physical activities and take care of nutrients.- From small age, add some physical activities, like games, gardening, farming etc to your child.. don’t encourage his/her to make abs and biceps( it has its own cons), but he/she should be flexible physically and mentally as well.
7. Never frighten your child- For unnecessary moral and ethical values, never frighten your child and tell his/her teachers, not to do so.